Sunday 23 January 2022

Sunday

Morning, everyone!  It's a bit warmer this morning so there's no frost.  Yesterday remained pretty cold for ages  but was so gloriously sunny and bright, I didn't really mind.  The drives to and back from Dad's home were very pleasant and at last, at long, long last, the Little Hadham by-pass is finished and open.  It does go a long way round the village but is so much better.  The road through the village centre is only wide enough for one car's width so there's four way traffic lights - you can imagine the rush hour tailback on a busy road like the A120.  I bet the residents are delighted that it's all done.

Well, yesterday was an interesting day and a very useful day.  The estate agent had talked John through various things he felt the house needed to be selling-ready, none of which were particularly difficult to do, mostly involving clearing bits of clutter, etc.  I set to and got everything done apart from John's bedroom and the kitchen, both of which John will deal with before he leaves this morning.  John helped with a bit of heavy lifting and decision making and then I did the rest while he sat down with a stack of keys to identify and label.

We also talked finance as there's now a pretty fair idea of how much is in the estate and how much we should inherit.  Obviously, I'm not going into any details but will just say it lifts any concerns about any reasonable future needs and, wisely invested, should make a good sum to hand on when my turn comes - always assuming I haven't frittered it all away in wildly abandoned living in the meanwhile!
And I won't feel guilty about treating myself to an occasional roast lamb joint which, as we know, costs an arm and a leg at the best of times.

I came home with a few more bits and pieces including a nice tripod for my camera.  I shall use it when doing Eileen's focus homework (probably today).  I've also got a fold down baize covered card table which won't be used for cards, just as a useful extra surface when needed, and a hearing aid/telly gizmo.  I already have one of the latter but another is always handy as they seem to be quite hard to get hold of.  They connect up to the telly, you put the thingy round your neck and it connects with the loop function on my hearing aids so I can hear the telly clearly without needing to have the sound up at all.  Very useful when one lives in a semi detached home and one doesn't want to disturb the neighbours.

I played with the camera again and this seems to be the best it will do in terms of a fuzzy background.  It's not really a good 'Bokeh' effect which, as any fule kno (cough) is, and I quote Google . . . 'the aesthetic quality of an image's background blur'.
So now we know!


On the other hand, isn't it amazing that from each of those stubby little buds will come spring leaves and blossom and autumn apples.

Today, I feel a bit achey after lots of running up and down stairs yesterday so I will be taking things easy.  There's nothing I absolutely HAVE to do so in terms of housework so I'll take it as it comes.
Hoping you all have a lovely Sunday.  Keep safe and be happy.  xx



16 comments:

  1. Hopefully you aren't too achy today. That folding card table would be very useful here for playing cards.

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    1. If there was any reasonable way of getting it to you, I would. You're not coming in this direction at any point, are you?

      No, I'm not to achey, thanks. I've done my kettle squats and that's loosened everything up quite nicely!
      xx

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    2. Eeeek - too achey, not to achey. Bad me! x

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  2. Have a nice easy day and hopefully the aches will go.

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    1. They're much better, thanks, Diane.
      xx

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  3. No frost here overnight but it's still very cold, I doubt my washing will dry. Glad the kettle squats have loosened you up.....think I might have to try that! xx

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    1. Take it slowly and carefully and gradually build them up . . . they might help. xx

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  4. It's nice to get things organised isn't it, hopefully you will get a sale quickly and things can move forward.

    I love watching buds start to pop open and the blossom and leaves appear in Spring. Our daffodils are up by about a foot now, but with just leaves at the moment and the snowdrops are about to pop out and flower.

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    1. It's a very good feeling, even though we will miss the place. However, it's not the same since Mum and Dad passed away, obviously. It was build in 1970 and has only had one owner so it's really been a second home for all of us.
      xx

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  5. I do hope there's going to be a little bit of wildly abandoned living though. It'll do you good but mostly the enjoyment we'll all get from reading what you get up to 😂

    I'll email you later on. xx

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    1. < chuckle > Well - maybe, just a bit!!
      xx

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  6. Regarding your inheritance. When my mum died I invested my portion of her estate. However, after some debating with myself, I decided that my kids could use it more effectively now rather than waiting until it passed to them. So we split the money in three which still left me plenty for my needs. They were able to put it towards paying down their mortgages. Just a thought.

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    1. It's a very good one but my lovely Dad left them a goodly sum in his will too. And Alex. He has been more than fair and generous.

      But it is nice that I will have the wherewithal to help out, if needed.
      xx

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  7. We warmed up here from well below freezing with snow, to above freezing and rain tonight. It is not going to be nice for awhile so that means I won't be putting on my cleats and walking outside.

    Hope your aches and pains have gone.

    God bless.

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    1. I guess it's very muddy and not nice for walking at all.
      xx

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  8. It's tough to think about money, isn't it? but nice it will make your life a little easier. Mum wasn't wealthy but she had her flat and the money will be distributed between the four of us when it sells. I really haven't been thinking too much about it. I think I'm procrastinating as I don't know how it will work with me being in the US.

    I like your photo. Nature is amazing! I hope you document the growth of those flowers. Will be nice to watch.

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